
Nearly each time I share the most recent proposed flooring plan of our bed room suite and addition currently, I’ve at the least one individual ask, “However the place will you retailer Matt’s Hoyer raise and wheelchairs?” That query wasn’t solely coming from others. It was additionally in my thoughts as nicely. As a lot as I cherished this new plan that we got here up with for turning the three unique bedrooms of the home into one bed room suite after which including on a a lot smaller addition than the one we had initially deliberate years in the past, the one sticking level has all the time been that I don’t have a devoted storage space for these gadgets that Matt requires.
Right here’s the most recent flooring plan that I shared, and the one which I’ve been working in direction of since I shared it

Again in December (or it might have even been November), I met with an architect who I do know from church as a result of I wished him to attract up the official paperwork that we have to undergo town for our addition. I informed him that I’ve the essential flooring plan of our home, together with all the measurements, so he doesn’t want to start out from scratch. So when he left, I informed him that I’d ship him that data and he might go from there.
Nicely, it’s February, and I nonetheless haven’t despatched him something as a result of one thing about our plan simply wasn’t sitting proper with me. So after I noticed him at church just a few weeks in the past, I stated, “I haven’t forgotten! I’m simply making an attempt to work out some particulars.” He assured me that he wasn’t in any hurry and can be prepared when I’m. So I form of put it out of my thoughts for just a few weeks.
And the half that wasn’t sitting with me was making an attempt to squeeze two bedrooms and a lounge right into a smaller addition, plus winding up with no devoted cupboard space for Matt’s gadgets. I like my husband dearly, however I don’t like having his stuff (bathe wheelchair and common wheelchair when he’s not utilizing it) in and out the way in which the place I’m continually having to stroll round it or stumble upon it after I’m half asleep at night time making an attempt to make my approach to the lavatory.
In my thoughts, I used to be pondering I might carve out some area in our future residence gymnasium for these gadgets. It wasn’t an excellent plan, however it was the one plan I might give you with out including much more room to the long run addition. And whereas it could be good to simply construct an enormous addition with room for every little thing my little coronary heart needs, it’s simply not sensible. I actually wish to maintain that addition to 16 ft (versus the 27 ft our unique plan would have required). That’s a distinction of virtually 500 sq. ft, which makes an enormous distinction within the ultimate value.
Even on the ground plan on the high of this publish, you may see that I compromised on that 16-foot restrict that I had set by bumping out the visitor bed room. However once more, I simply couldn’t see one other approach. So these are the issues that had been conserving me from transferring ahead and sending the data to the architect. I didn’t wish to pay him for drawing up plans if I used to be nonetheless uncertain in regards to the plan. I didn’t wish to add to the fee by paying him now for one thing I’m uncertain about, solely to vary my thoughts at a later date after which should have him draw up extra plans that will value more cash.
So I’ve been sitting on this for some time now (since November or December), simply hoping {that a} resolution would current itself. And I believe that lastly occurred this final weekend.
As y’all know, I’ve been speaking rather a lot about how the doorways to the hallway rest room will finally be closed up and I’ll have a stable wall there within the bed room lobby. After which the entry to that loo can be moved to the brand new hallway as soon as we construct the addition.

However each time I’d go into that loo, I’d suppose to myself how completely located that room is for the much-needed storage room I’ve been wanting for Matt’s gadgets. It’s the right dimension for it. It’s the right location proper there contained in the bed room suite. It already has doorways on it that speak in confidence to the scale wanted to maneuver these gadgets out and in very simply. It’s simply excellent.
The issue with that plan is clear, although. If I maintain that room accessible to the bed room suite and switch it right into a storage closet, meaning we have now no visitor rest room. And I’ve been down this street earlier than, making an attempt to suit a rest room into the addition. I couldn’t match two bedrooms, a lounge, and a rest room right into a 16-foot addition. The area simply isn’t there for all of that.
But it surely had been some time since I actually studied that flooring plan, so this final weekend, I made a decision to try it with contemporary eyes and a transparent head to see if there was any approach so as to add a rest room to that addition whereas conserving it to 16 ft. And what struck me instantly was the query, “Why am I making an attempt so as to add two bedrooms (considered one of which might be used as a house gymnasium) to the addition? Do we actually want two bedrooms?”
So I obtained actually trustworthy with myself. Why am I making an attempt so as to add two bedrooms? Why do I would like a visitor bed room that may sit there, utterly unused, only for the aim of getting a visitor bed room? I can’t even bear in mind the final time we would have liked a visitor bed room. Matt’s dad doesn’t journey anymore, and he’s the one visitor we’ve ever had. And if the very uncommon event did come up after we wanted to accommodate a visitor in a single day, my studio has loads of room to arrange a mattress. So having a devoted visitor bed room looks like an entire waste of area (and cash) to me.
The one cause I used to be including a second bed room within the addition is as a result of in my thoughts, I’m nonetheless caught on the concept I want to show this home again right into a three-bedroom home. Why? For future homeowners. My goodness, how typically have I preached that folks have to make their houses their very own with out eager about what some attainable future homeowners might want? And but, I stored going again to that. I’m not even training what I preach.
So after giving it a number of thought, I noticed that the one individual I wish to make sure that we have now room for is my mother. My mother is 86 years outdated. She is in phenomenal well being and lives by herself within the residence I grew up in. She’s rather a lot like her personal mom, who lived by herself till she was 99. My grandmother was in superb well being at that age. She was nonetheless driving, nonetheless residing alone in her residence in east Texas, nonetheless taking good care of her home by herself, nonetheless taking good care of her property, and thriving. However she had made an settlement along with her daughters (my mother and my aunt) that when she turned 100, she would promote her home and transfer to Waco. So when she turned 100, she offered her home, moved to Waco, and moved right into a retirement residence the place she lived in her personal condo. She lived to be 108 years outdated, and she or he did simply high quality residing by herself till about these final two years of her life.
My mother appears to be on that very same observe. She’s 86 years outdated and thriving. When she tells individuals her age, there’s all the time an audible gasp. Folks suppose they misheard her, and there’s no attainable approach she might be 86 years outdated. She’s in higher well being than most individuals 20 years her junior. And he or she loves residing by herself in her own residence.
So whereas I don’t see her needing to return dwell with us anytime within the close to future, I simply have it in my thoughts that if she ever needs or wants to dwell some other place, she gained’t go to a retirement residence. She’ll come dwell with us. She is actually the one individual I wish to make sure we have now room prepared and obtainable for if she ever needs or wants to dwell someplace aside from her own residence. However once more, as she appears to be on the identical observe as her personal mom, we’re taking a look at that being over a decade away.
With that objective in thoughts of creating certain we have now area for my mother, I gave our flooring plan one other look. And what I made a decision is that I can get rid of the wasted area of an precise visitor bed room that may sit there unused. I do need one bed room within the addition as a result of I desire a room that we are able to use as a house gymnasium for now, however that room can simply be transformed right into a bed room if we ever have want of that. And eliminating that second bed room leaves loads of room for a visitor rest room. A 16-foot addition is loads of room for one bed room with a big closet, one rest room, and a household room. And if the day comes that we want the house gymnasium as a bed room, we are able to simply shut up the door between our rest room and that bed room.
So with all of that in thoughts, that is what I’m now planning. And all of it suits throughout the 16-foot restrict that I wished to maintain.

I really feel so peaceable about this plan. I’m going to take a seat with it a pair extra weeks and ensure I don’t see any issues with it, however I can virtually assure that that is the plan I’ll be sending to the architect. It provides us every little thing we want, together with that much-needed cupboard space for Matt’s gadgets.
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